Should my husband buy house for his parents or for his wife
My boyfriend and I are both 27 and live in Hyderabad. He earns over ₹4 Lakh a month, while I earn ₹50k. He is an only child and has completely supported his unemployed parents since he was 20 because his father has never held a job was very lazy. Currently, he sends them ₹35k every month for rent and living expenses.
Three months ago, he finally told them about me. Because we are from different castes, his mother immediately rejected me and started using horoscopes to manipulate him. She is claiming that our marriage will be chaotic, that I won't be able to conceive, and that our children will be born disabled and die. It is incredibly toxic and cruel.
Despite hating the idea of me, his parents are now pressuring him to buy a 3BHK flat in their hometown for ₹1.8 Crores at an 8% interest rate, under the guise that we will all live together after marriage.
I am a very straightforward person and told my boyfriend that I will absolutely never live with his parents after the things they said. Furthermore, we cannot afford two home EMIs. If he buys this luxury house for them, he cannot afford a home for our own future family. I believe his father should have provided a house for his mother instead of dumping a massive financial trap onto their only child. My boyfriend is under intense emotional guilt. How do we navigate this situation and handle his parents' financial pressure?