u/Ok_Rope_2926

A few days ago i ended my relationship with my partner of 9 months. We were getting into the stage of thinking about doing more intimate things, and we ended up doing so. Our relationship has been on the rocks for about 2 months and we would constantly argue. Two days ago I found out that my now ex told one of my old friends who i no longer speak to due to being perverted about the intimate details of what we did, as well as sharing my name. As expected the old friend told many of my close friends and old friends and im completely shocked and hurt that my partner would do such a thing. Now they continue to beg me for a second chance saying it isnt as bad as i make it out to be. Am i in the wrong?