
Enna panrathu nu therla frnds, help pannunga 🙏🙏
Vanakkam guyss.
Idk how much reach/advices I will get from this post , the last time I put my efforts to type a long post(rant of mine) , I got less responses. Hoping to get a meaningful 3-4 advices atleast.
So kathaiku varen. There is a girl in my class whom I have had a crush on since the 1st day I entered the college, but at that time veetla nalla saaptu full tanned a koncham ugly a irunthen (smwt better now after doing diet anol). + Introvert vera appo 2-3 per thavira avlo va pesa maaten appo. So time edithu peslam nu vita gapla theriya vanthatu oru senior voda commit ayital nu😭😭.
Cheri avlo dhan namakku idhu dhan eludhi vechadu nu nenachu vida try pannen. Aana ava en class dha daily paapen , forget panna try pannalum vida mudiyala. Ava roll no (00 nu vechikonga summa). Andha 00 epidyachum engayachum reference pudicha appo lam avla pathi nenapen(Ex: phone la correct a 00 vara appo, random snacks kadaila, think of as seeing her no(00) in most randomest thing I see everyday).
2 years poiruchu. Ippo dha recent a kelvi paten she broke up 2 weeks ago nu. But the thing is previously I have tried many ways to talk to her while making it not look like I came out of blue to talk to her. Pesa vaaipu ellam kammi ya irunchu(konjam bayam dhan ).
The thing is now intern season is going on and naa light a off track la iruken(less serious) and I am trying to get serious on it (like full lock in). I believe in the quote that getting rejected is better than not even trying and then regretting. So try panlam nu iruken. Aana most of the relationships I see in college paathale idhellam 6 months - 1 year la mudinjurum nu( and they happen lol 😂) and I feel like if I get in relationship idk if it lasts >1 year and also if I am capable of giving the full attention/emotional support ( basically idk how relationship goes or ends). Given I need to get on track in academics and life idk if it is worth it rn to ask her out. Avlo pesnadhe illa naala idk much of her real character( but from outside she is a calm, less talkative, studious, stylish (9+ cg 🙂↕️ vera) girl).
So enna panradhu nu therla. (Life a ?ponnu a?) I don't want to miss this chance before someone comes and asks her out for a relationship (Neraiya regrets neraya visyatla Iruku ) so idk want to get another one especially in this matter ( naa aludhirven nadantha🥹🥹 ).
Idhellam apdi ye ava proposal accept pannirva maari elurthirpen (Mostly chance kami).
So ippo propose panna va venam a? Life ah ponnu ah? Illana reject aayi friends a vaa aachu ayidlam a?
+ I feel a bit awkward to propose a girl after she just broke up recently (they broke up mutually aana paatha avlo feel panre maari therla) . Ithu boon/bane nu therla ava birthday innum 1 week la vara poguthu (kooda sem CT exams um varuthu😭😭😭 )