u/Old-Reference-7756

As an independent voter in Sacramento, who actually has serious solutions for California’s biggest problems?

I love California, but the politics are burning me out — independent voter looking for real answers

Before anyone jumps to conclusions, let me give you some context: I'm a 29-year-old independent voter in Sacramento. I have a wife who works in the school district and a young daughter. I run my own small business and I'm currently going back to college. I'm not here to bash the state — California is genuinely my home and I want it to thrive. But I'd be lying if I said what's been happening in this state doesn't bother me.

Here's what's been weighing on me:

**Crime & public safety** — I want my daughter to grow up in a safe community and attend safe schools. I don't think that's too much to ask. Policies that feel soft on crime make that harder to feel confident about.

**Our schools are in serious trouble** — My wife works in the school district, so this one hits close to home. Teachers are overwhelmed. Class sizes are too large and there simply aren't enough hands on deck to give kids the attention they need. On top of that, student behavior has become a real and growing problem — and teachers have almost no tools to address it. Discipline policies have been so watered down that kids who consistently disrupt the classroom face little to no real consequences, and the students who actually want to learn are the ones who suffer for it.

**Affordability** — As a young family in Sacramento, the cost of living is a real pressure. Housing, groceries, running a small business — it all adds up. California is increasingly hard to build a life in if you're not already established. My in-laws that are a military family were living in Georgia for a few years they recently got sent over here in California and they asked us "How are you even surviving?" and tbh I have no idea. My wife has been wanting to leave California because we feel like we can barely stay afloat with the high living cost, paired with an insane amount of taxes but tbh I don't want to leave California is my home and I love it here. 

**Taxes — and where they're actually going** — Let me be clear: I understand taxes are necessary. Roads need to be paved, schools need to be funded, services need to run. I get it. But Californians are being hit from every direction — at the gas pump, at the register, on our paychecks, on our property, at the bridge toll, and then again when we register our vehicles every year. It adds up fast, especially for working families and small business owners. What makes it truly infuriating isn't the taxes themselves — it's the feeling that the money isn't going where it's supposed to. When billions of dollars evaporate to fraud and mismanagement, it doesn't feel like civic duty anymore. It feels like being robbed. We deserve to know exactly where our money is going and why the people responsible for losing it aren't being held accountable.

**Homelessness** — It's a visible, ongoing crisis and after years of throwing money at it, I'm not seeing the results that were promised. Something fundamentally isn't working. when I think of all the money we have spent on it all I can think of is Fraud/Embezzlement and Failure. It's sad to see people on the streets but I also dont like going for walks with my wife and daughter and having a homeless man tweaking out and screaming at us.  

**What I don't want** is another career politician who cycles in, makes the same promises, protects the same interests, and leaves things the same or worse.

**What I'm actually asking:** Who do you think has real, substantive policies that could make a difference? Doesn't matter to me if they're left, right, or somewhere in between — I vote on issues, not parties. I just want to hear from other Californians who are paying attention.

What are your thoughts? Who are you watching and why?

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u/Old-Reference-7756 — 4 days ago

Maternity leave at the district

Hi everyone! Concerned (and slightly stressed) husband here 😅

My wife recently earned her Master's in Speech-Language Pathology and is currently working as an SLP at Elk Grove Unified School District. We have one daughter and are planning to try again this winter, so I'm trying to get ahead of the maternity leave conversation now while I have some downtime. Planning is very important in our family.

We've already heard from a colleague that she may be required to pay for a substitute SLP out of pocket, which honestly caught us off guard. At her previous employer, she received approximately 8 months of leave (roughly 2 of which were unpaid), and her leave was covered through California's SDI (State Disability Insurance) and PFL (Paid Family Leave/Bonding). When she returned, she did have to cover our health insurance — around $400–$500/month, totaling about $4K. We're trying to understand if EGUSD operates similarly or very differently, especially since school districts sometimes opt out of SDI.

A few things we're trying to figure out:

• What does maternity leave actually look like at EGUSD?

• Is the substitute SLP cost common, and is there any way around it?

• Does EGUSD participate in SDI/PFL, or does the district handle leave compensation differently?

• She's not currently in the union — could joining before the next academic year make a difference?

• Are there any benefits consultants or advisors who specialize in helping educators navigate this?

She plans to speak with HR directly, but we want to go in as informed as possible.

Any insight from current or former EGUSD employees — especially SLPs — would be hugely appreciated. Thanks in advance!

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u/Old-Reference-7756 — 10 days ago

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Hey everyone,

I'll keep it real — growing up I never thought college was for me. I struggled in school, had no idea what I wanted to do with my life, and ended up dropping out after just 2 semesters. That was 10 years ago.

But I'm back. I'm attending Los Rios to eventually transfer to Sac State and earn a BS in Construction Management, and honestly? This is the first time in my life I've actually felt ready and excited about school.

Not gonna lie, it's still intimidating af — but I'm doing it anyway.

I wanted to get the community's thoughts on my class schedule. I'm also 1st on the waitlist for Business Law, and if I get in, I'm considering dropping another class to keep my workload manageable. After a 10-year gap, the last thing I want to do is bite off more than I can chew and psych myself out before I even get started.

Any advice is appreciated — thanks in advance! 🙏

Also, the math prep lab is to help prepare me for trigonometry in the spring.

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u/Old-Reference-7756 — 16 days ago