I’m struggling 2 weeks before the wedding.
So. On Sept 25 my father suddenly and very unexpectedly passed away 4 weeks before our we. This is me and my fiancé’s second marriage (we are 51 ) and I eloped the first time. Im struggling so much and having a hard time managing grief with trying to finalize wedding plans and the excitement of our destination wedding weekend.
Add on also trying to figure out what I’m going to do walking down the aisle. My thoughts —.
A. I walk halfway by myself where my mom (they were divorced) will meet me and walk me to the end.
B. I step out to the aisle (it’s a stone pathway from the house down to ceremony spot) and have my fiancé come up and get me and we walk together.
That’s all I have for now. Does anyone have any ideas? I don’t have any other familial males, no siblings or cousins or uncles.
I’d appreciate any thoughts of walking down the aisle and also memorializing Dad on this day he was SO looking forward to. Thank you 🙏🏼