Matched e-mom unresponsive
My husband and I matched with an expecting mom in April 2026 - she is due in October. She is raising a child by herself, has already placed her second child through our adoption agency and we've now met her in person and have built a good relationship - so we were fairly confident that the chances of the match getting disrupted were quite low. Few days ago, she texted that she was at the doctor's because she wasn't feeling well. She was texting us during the appointment that they were doing tests but then went radio silent. We managed to call her by phone the next day (glad to find out that she was okay) - she said she will call us back but since then, her phone has been switched off. Our agency has not been able to reach her either. Our agency also mentioned that they had just transferred her the living expenses and some additional money for July earlier on the same day. It's only been 2-3 days and she's still 15 weeks away from her delivery date - so we are not sure what to think and the uncertainty is really difficult because we don't know if we need to grieve yet. We would be fine if she has changed her mind but the worst case scenario is that something bad happened at the doctor's. Not sure if anyone has experience with something like this and if this is usually a sign of a failed match.
