u/Old_Toe_4763

if anyone using aklief has any moisturiser recommendations i’d love to try them out! before started aklief, i used the blue cerave moisturiser which has always been fine but since my skin has been more dry and sensitive with aklief it started to sting so i tried the nivea cream that’s in a blue tin (sorry lol i don’t know what it’s called aha) and it’s super thick and hydrating and doesn’t sting my skin which is nice but it leaves my skin feeling quite oily and heavy and i’m worried that it’s clogging my pores. so if anyone has suggestions on moisturisers that are hydrating, good for sensitive skin, acne safe and not too heavy that’d be amazing!! thanks so much :)

hello! this is my first post so i’m not really sure what to expect or if i’m doing it right lol.

i am 16F and have recently been wondering if i am asexual.
i’ve kind of thought i might be bisexual since i was quite young as i find both men and women attractive but would also be open to dating other genders i guess. (does that make me pansexual idk?)
i had a 6 month relationship with a guy that i ended in november of 2025 bc i lowkey didn’t really have feelings for him anymore. i kind of wondered if i ever truly liked him to be honest. i mean he was nice and we were eachothers first relationship so i think maybe it was a bit bumpy?

one of the things i noticed when we were dating was i absolutely hated kissing, idk if we were just “bad” kissers cuz ig we’d never really done it before but it was just so gross and unappealing to me. idk if that’s normal and people just deal with the weird gross feeling or if people genuinely enjoy it so i think i just did it because i felt like i should. and we never really did anything else because neither of us initiated anything (fine by me)

apart from that, i have zero sex drive and would happily be in a relationship with no sex but also i don’t even know it i would even want a relationship (wondering if i could also be aromantic?). but with the whole sex drive stuff idk if that’s because of antidepressants that i take because i know it can be a side effect of them. however i never really experienced sex drive before taking antidepressants (to be fair i was really struggling with my mental health before i took antidepressants so idk if that played a role in my sex drive also). i think if i was to ever get into a relationship i wouldn’t ever initiate sex or if i did it’d be incredibly infrequent and i’d do it to make my partner happy.

i think a lot of people are getting into relationships at this time and having sex and stuff and i guess i just feel different because i don’t really want that and i feel like i should want to want that.

sorry my thoughts are so scrambled, this whole post may not make any sense but i’d appreciate any thoughts and opinions!!

thanks so much !!