Let’s talk about a non-con fantasy
I do agree that porn of non-con/rape is very very bad and harmful however, as an SA victim something like a non-con scene with a consenting partner feels very heeling for me. I’ve seen a lot of posts on this subreddit about a non-con fantasy and while I can say that sometimes it’s just a shitty person who wants to glorify rape but sometimes it’s someone like me who finds scenes like this comforting. For me it’s about knowing that the situ is controlled. when I was SAd it was very traumatic and turned me off of ”bedroom activities” for a long time until I did a scene with my partner. Knowing that I could tell them to stop and they would made me feel better about those activities and has helped me move past my trauma. again; porn of this is just trying to glorify rape and I don’t agree with it.