Just broke up with my boyfriend.
Need help dealing with a breakup.
Hello there, I (20F) am going through a breakup. It’s really bad for me. Basically, ex boyfriend wasn’t putting in effort and cheated on me in the relationship, and i kept coming back to him, so i broke up with him and blocked him. This was yesterday.
A friend suggested I give him clarity and so I did, on an app he wasn’t blocked on. Just learned today, he’s now in another relationship and I’m trying to not cry. I just feel heartbroken because it feels I meant nothing to him. I told him how he made me feel and he doubled down to tell me that I never cared for him, it wasn’t even true, I was there for him
through thick and thin. Hearing and reading his messages hurt me terribly, even the fact that he’s with someone else is hurting me.
I have had multiple relationships before, but I’m trying to tell myself I’ll be fine. I don’t have much friends so I can’t really distract myself as much as I really would like to, it’s hard. I would like some comfort and advice please.