u/OnerousBeaver

Grass is always greener on the other side

I am a long time reader on Reddit in general. I have been using Reddit for many many years now on different accounts, and during that time I have noticed a certain well-known pattern that is common on this website which is the fact that discussions tend to steer towards elitism and details. This is most often observed on subreddits that focus on hobbies where only the very best gear and the most optimal routines are encouraged, and the rest are shot down. To a beginner, or someone not that interested in the subject, this will create a feeling of a barrier of entry. My thought was to write a post to remind everyone not to look too much into what others are doing, but focus on yourself, and take from others what is relevant to you and discard the rest, removing that feeling of a barrier.

When you see someone stating their way of simple living, do not be discouraged and think "I wish I could live like that". As the rules say: "-- every person here has a different personal interpretation of how to live simply." So be creative, be brave, and make your own simple live. Try the small thing you've been thinking about.

Sometimes a bigger change is necessary. You know your situation the best, and probably will not find much help here. Talk to people you know in real life for guidance. They are probably in a much better position to assist you.

I guess my entire point here is that don't become dependent on strangers on the internet to tell you how to live your life. Trust yourself. Because I believe that this subreddit is a guide to help you come up with your own way. Otherwise, we will turn this place into one of those hobby subreddits.

Is this not a better approach to actually moving towards simple live than the eternal comparison between yourself and others? Grass is always greener on the other side.

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u/OnerousBeaver — 3 days ago