How honest can u be in sensitive conversations?
Something happened lately that really stuck with me while i was having a conversation with my gf about her anemia.
She was telling me about this drink that cures anemia. And me thinking that anemia can’t be cured (i was apparently wrong), I stated it during our conversation which really hurt her feelings and she called me insensitive because of it.
My intention of saying that is trying to be as truthful and honest as that’s how i always prefer anyone to treat me. Giving me the hard truth rather than sugarcoating or lying to me, but apparently, that wasn’t the right move and I’ve been feeling guilty about it for days now.
Has anyone experienced something similar? How did u deal with it? I’m also curious if other INFJs suffer from this as well or if its just an individual thing.