u/Opposite_Werewolf_53

Mild anxiety with travelling to an unfamiliar culture

It may seem silly because when it comes to travelling, isn't the excitement supposed to be bigger than the anxiety? Unfortunately, I feel the anxiety overshadows the excitement when I'm travelling to somewhere where I don't speak the language of. I fear being "cringey" or being seen to be trying too hard in an effort to respect the culture - I think of how people say when tourists attempt to speak French in Paris, they'd speak English back, which to me, that means they think it's embarrassing or annoying.

Another thing I fear is not understanding the culture and disrespecting the locals unintentionally. I learned a bit of a language in university with which I could communicate basic needs. Also worth mentioning that my home culture is similar to this place. However, I still managed to, or at least feel like I had, offend the restaurant staff. In the grand scheme of things, it really is not that bad. I am fully confident the restaurant staff simply thought I was a foreigner and did not know certain customs. But these experiences end up lingering with me and now causing some anxiety as I prepare for my next trip to somewhere where both culture and language are unfamiliar.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this if any of you have any to share. TIA

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u/Opposite_Werewolf_53 — 5 days ago

How different are between "tourist trap" and "hidden gem/hole in the wall" restaurants?

Bear with me - I'm not a seasoned traveller and do get overwhelmed by feeling like I have to be the perfect traveller. In an effort to ease my nerves, I was wondering if so called tourist trap restaurants are really that bad, or even if I did insufficient or ineffective research, and ended up at a tourist trap, I'd still be impressed.

I'd appreciate food/restaurant suggestions for Naples and La Spezia / Florence if you have any to share. TIA!

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u/Opposite_Werewolf_53 — 5 days ago