u/Optimal_Fuel6568

So on one hand people say a fake personality is really bad but im just not the kind of guy who takes a lot of super staged pictures at all and also never asked anyone to take pictures of me

But that would be fake or not?

Why should i pretend to be this super handsome well dressed guy who has a photographer follow me around taking pics of me all day like im a supermodel if im not that guy? Im just a regular working class dude who wears jeans and monochrome shirts all day....

What can i do to not seem fake but also get matches?

I know guys who are overweight, wear baggy dirty clothes all day and they somehow all are in relationships... idk what im doing wrong

It works neither online nor IRL...

I just read through the FAQ and i feel like i can never find anyone.

What do i do if i dont have any friends who are shorter than me, what do i do if i dont have any of the "cool" hobbies?

I dont want to lie and pretend im someone who im not. I dont want to pretend to be a cool freeclimber who goes out every weekend with 50 best friends just for a woman to find out on the first date that im a introverted disabled guy ....

All of these requirements are literally impossible for me to fulfill. Any advice what i can do?

I feel like this FAQ would get me banned in other subs for "blackpill ideology"

Is there any dating app advice that works for normal people who are not a fuckign movie character?