Where’s the loyalty??
I just needed someplace to rant and I really don’t have any friends or family to talk to lol.
So basically I have this friend who we’ll call Amy. I’ve known Amy since literally primary school (I’m in college now so it’s been a long time). And our friendship has been on and off the entire time.
Not that we had any arguments, sometimes we’re just very close and the other times we barely speak. Currently you could say we’re just venting buddies, even if Amy only ever vents to me and doesn’t let me share what’s on my mind.
Now I’ll get to the point. Amy asked me for help on an assignment and I obviously helped her. One thing about me is that I’m a huge over sharer. I don’t know when to shut up. So after Amy thanked me I started talking to her like friends do.
What we talked about were mundane subjects like video games. But then she started venting to me about her friends ignoring her (I wonder why?) and her vaping addiction.
I tried to comfort her that it isn’t her fault as I usually do. It’s become a routine with her atp. And then I bring up my own brother’s vaping addiction, one thing leads to another and we are talking about the guy who sold the vape to Amy.
The guy (let’s call him Steve) has a girlfriend (who we will call Anna) who are pretty cute I’d say. I was telling Amy how my brother had told me that Sara (made up name if you couldn’t tell lol) had asked Steve to go out behind Anna’s back.
Obviously I didn’t believe it, and neither should Amy considering Sara and Steve are cousins! My brother is a very unreliable source, which Amy also knows!
Yet Amy goes on to tell Sara’s best friend Brianna (made up name) about what I had shared? And then Brianna goes on to tell Sara.
Now I’m being interrogated by Sara too.
I know I’m probably overreacting but it just makes me so sad as to the fact that I really can’t share what’s on my mind with out these bitches going on to twist all of my words.
It makes me glad I haven’t opened up to Amy, who knows who could’ve known all my business? But I don’t know, am I wrong to feel like I hate Amy? Am I over reacting?