Falsely accused of rape
Location: Oklahoma
I’ve had an ongoing issue with a stalker for about 3 years. I also want to preface this with no I never had sexual contact with her once nor did I insinuate that’s what I wanted.I met this girl through a mutual friend I never really hung out with her we stayed mutuals on Instagram for a while before I even hung out with her once. I hung out with her for the first time 3 years ago we had hung out a total of 3 times over a span of a month.
I had just turned 20 at the time and she had told me she was 17. Initially I had only hung out with her as friends because that’s what I presumed we were. On the third and final day we hung out she had tried to kiss me and kept trying to grab my hand. I told her to stop and she was making me uncomfortable. She kept just looking at me weirdly. I was already super uncomfortable because I had smoked her weed at the time which looking back at her behavior wasn’t smart it was definitely laced.
After that I had stopped hanging out with her physically. Well after that she had started texting me more and more and just being generally annoying. I had told her to leave me alone and to stop trying to flirt with me as it made me uncomfortable. She started going around telling people that we had a multiple year long relationship and that I was her “ex”. Which would be impossible considering I only hung out with her twice. The issues started when she went around claiming we had sex. Which I blew off because she’s clearly crazy it didn’t affect nor bother me.
Well turns out when we hung out she had lied about her age and was only 15 maybe 16. I don’t know seems she lies to everyone about her age. Listen I know there will be some judgement on “how could you not tell she was 15?”. Genuinely no idea between her face caked in makeup and the fact she was an avid chain smoker. I just believed her at face value and that was my first mistake. Also I wasn’t planning on being romantic with her so I didn’t really dig too deep since I had only hung out with her because I was bored.
I then proceeded to block her after finding out. She then went full postal. She made 30+ different accounts to contact me. I changed my number 3 times. I also deleted my main account and switched to a new account. Well lo and behold she goes to my work after hours and leaves a serial killer style note for me. I know it was her because CCTV caught her on camera. Well about 8-10 months ago I thought I had finally lost her new account with no name only close friends and a private account at that. Turns out nope she somehow found it. She then blew up my DMs claiming she had vivid dreams about murdering me. She also then had 4 alt accounts simultaneously try to follow me. I’m honestly just tired I’m scared that if I take any sort of legal action against her she will fire back with her false statuary rape claims. I know I’d win in court the issue is a mugshot and arrest with that kind of charge is life ruining on its own. What do I do to avoid all of this? I’m genuinely just lost. I have like hundreds of screenshots from this girl over the years it’s genuinely bothering me.