u/Ordinary_Character85

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caregiver uncomfortable?

for the last little bit my um caregiver hasnt been indulging me in my space i suppose and last night he said he was uncomfortable and left which he reassured me wasnt because of my agere stuff but then today i asked him again and he said he couldnt and to not talk to him and he only came back many hours later when we usually talk all day and then I asked why and he said because he was uncomfortable, naturally i asked why, but he just said he didnt know. so im not sure what i should do :(

he is in a place that he doesnt want to be right now that makes him pretty unstable but idk and i dont know if this is permanent or not because its such a huge part of my life and i dont know what ill do if i cant um idk around him. we’ve had some issues with caregiving in the past i suppose but hes never wanted to not be my caregiver. hes really avoidant so its hard to have productive conversations with him

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u/Ordinary_Character85 — 7 hours ago

cg with self worth issues

I have a caregiver!!! we are usually pretty cool ya know and hes um great with the.. caregiverly duties i suppose when hes feeling good! it’s just lately he has been in a funk and has been feeling consistently low! he doesnt seem to believe me when i reassure him that i want just him and he tries to get me to leave when hes in these moods despite him admitting that he really doesnt want that. and he can take it out with pretty destructive behaviour! i was just wondering what i can do to comfort him or reassure him in times of need! ⸜( •• )⸝

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u/Ordinary_Character85 — 7 days ago