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Do I tell my friend that I think her other friend is a bad person?

Hi F/22. I’ve had this really good best friend for almost 5 years. She is truly my favorite person and we’ve been very close our entire friendship. We both moved away for different jobs, so we don’t live in same town just the same state and I get to visit her 1-3 times a month and it’s great but her roommate is actually horrible. She does things that are so rude and backhanded. For example she makes fun of her other roommates behind their back and laughs at them to their face basically. Also when I met her for the first time she barely acknowledges me and never looks me in the eye. Not sure if it’s because she’s jealous I’m closer to my best friend instead of her maybe. Anyways they are very good friends and I’ve come to turns with that but at what point do I say hey your friend/roommate isn’t a good person and it’s kind of weird you would want to associate yourself with them. I won’t lie it makes me a little mad that my best friend would ever want to be friends with a girl like her but here we are. They have a good dynamic I suppose I can tell they really like each other which is great it just makes me sad that she’s such a bad person. Am I being dramatic or do I say something ?

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u/Outrageous_Top1921 — 6 days ago

How can I move to Europe as a American?

Hi, F/20. I'm curious the best way to go about moving to Europe not quite sure where specifically leaning more towards warm costal regions (Greece, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Croatia). I have enough money to not need to work for a while, and or travel before living somewhere more long term but Im wondering what my first steps should be. Im in the process of applying for volunteer and travel programs and working on farms for free food and stay. I want to do this for a few months to a year depending on how it goes and eventually live in Europe full time. Should I apply for jobs? look for more volunteering? Would I be able to rent immediately? Also visa options? Sorry I have a lot of questions, please reply with any advice it would be much appreciated please dont be rude im genuinely just asking for support.

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u/Outrageous_Top1921 — 9 days ago