u/Own-Natural5409

Possible porn addiction

So me (18F) and my partner (19M) have been together for a year now. I haven’t watched porn since we got together as i think it’s disrespectful. Although we have never had that conversation and I wouldn’t even know where to start. But I think he has a porn addiction. I made that stupid mistake of looking through his phone, no evidence of him cheating. Just ALOT of porn. Especially on here and X. And some weird porn category’s that I’m not sure if I should be worried about..like he is a straight cis male but he’s looking up femboy porn..and I know straight men can still have weird fantasies porn wise but a part of me is like what if that’s what he’s really into..? I don’t wanna bring this up to him as I don’t want him knowing I’ve been through his phone and I don’t wanna ruin our relationship. But I just can’t help but compare myself to everything I’ve seen on that phone..I’m hoping he will mature soon I know boys are late to mature and he’s still a teenager, so it’s normal for them to watch porn. I know how addicting porn is especially for boys, and I’m assuming he’s watched it from a young age so that’s why he maybe has a hard time stopping? He doesn’t know I know he watches porn. And I suppose this is just something you have to deal with in a relationship. Might I add this is my first healthy and long term relationship so I’m still getting used to what’s normal and what’s not.
Sorry if this is a bit all over the place.

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u/Own-Natural5409 — 2 days ago