Dads, would you consider this to be disobedience?
I was eating lunch at the table with my dad and I got pretty full from my meal. There was also a bowl of cherries in front of me, and my dad asked me to have one. I told him that I was honestly pretty full but that I would have one later just because I didn't feel like it in the moment. I've already been having some stomach issues that he knows about, so I didn't feel like putting more food in my mouth after I was already full.
He kept insisting that i try one but I just repeatedly told him that I would just have it later. From there, he became incredibly angry and started shouting, lecturing, threatening me, and even yelling at my mom who was trying to defend me. His whole point was that I am "disobeying" him.
From my perspective, I feel as if I was reasonable in my reasons for not wanting to have one. What are your thoughts?