u/OwnTangerine6187

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Addiction

Hello I just need some personal advice.ive had Religious OCD as long as I remember but I've been fighting my toughest battle with scrupolosity for the past year or so. Alongside that I've been dealing with addiction. I've quit Marijuana and alcohol but cigars and pornography are still things that I struggle with personally. Pornography I've actually been getting a lot better. Ive havent abstained so long since I was 8 years old but my nicotine (cigar) use has been pretty bad. I find it quite difficult to quit both of those things simultaneously. Coupled with my scrupolisity when I try to quit both I've found it extremely difficult to the point I can only walk around in circles in my room praying in anguish getting nothing done. I am seeking professional help but I need to wait due to insurance stuff and I am just entering the lutheran tradition so I don't have a pastor that I can confide with. My former church was more of a john macarthury Baptist church which did a number on me. I don't trust the information that they give me anymore and I only really have you guys over at reddit. In my head im thinking that I can just gradually quit cigars and that it's a process but the verse that keeps coming into my head is when Paul says "God will not give you a temptation that you won't be able to handle". Am I making excuses or is this just my scrupolosity fairing up?

Thank you in advance I apologize for the atrocious Grammer

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u/OwnTangerine6187 — 2 days ago
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Can an apostate come back

Im 23m and Hebrews 6: 4-6 and Hebrews 12:17 have been torturing me for the past year or so to the point where I'm unemployed and extremely malnurtioned because I haven't been eating. I'm 5'8 and under 110 pounds and it's getting to the point where I can barely hold on to my sanity. Is there such thing as hardening your heart so much even if you beg God to forgive you he won't? I'm in deep pain and I need help. I've been in a cycle of smoking and pornography due to my doubts. I quit for a while then start back up again. Can someone please explain what this means? I come from a reformed background.

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u/OwnTangerine6187 — 11 days ago