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Me (~30M) and my partner (~30F), both bi, are considering opening up our relationship a bit.

We want to take it slow, and start without jumping straight into the deep end, and are considering visiting a dark room at a local lgbt club. Really only to hook up with each other, but not minding people seeing, or even interacting a bit.

None of us have experience in crousing culture or similar things, and have never visited a dark room, so I'm not sure if this would be against dark room etiquette.

What do you think? Are we invading Gay Men's spaces, or is it open to straight presenting couple play as well? Should we save that fantasy for a singer's club instead?