u/PM_ME_UR_TINY_DONGER

Long story short I guess I had a crash out and used the phrase "sensitive women" when arguing with two users who were women, and I copped a permanent ban for that. I was a bit harsh regarding lesbians who refuse to date bi women *just* because they're bisexual. I believe it's bigoted. Apparently they disagree. Mods told me I'm rude and it's ban worthy that I'm a man that only wants to talk about lesbians (I really don't). I swear I don't hate women or anything I actually like them, even the ones I disagree with? I don't hate anybody. I disavow hate.

I just want to hang out with the bros and have opinions and stuff. I don't care if the bros are like, boys or girls or whatever. Any suggestions for communities outside of the obvious: here?

I was pretty inexperienced before I got into my current relationship but now I am completely out of my element. Are men into big hairy(ish) guys? What has changed in the past 10 years? Is it even worth trying to make some friends that might become a bit more as someone in a relationship? What apps would you suggest? Grindr? Any tips?