u/POCKETCHANGE1276

I am 25m and whether I’m on the apps or meeting people IRL I have an apathy towards dating or even talking to women in general. I often wonder what’s the actual point a lot of women are scarred from dating understandable and the rest are overly cautious because of the horror stories and I’m pretty sure that the rest are somewhere inbetween. So I find myself wondering what’s the point in going up to a woman and trying to talk to them and trying to get to know them etc when I could really just mind my business and get on with my own life. Only issue is I actually want a relationship wife kids big house etc. so my current attitude and feeling towards dating is not good for my future goals