u/PaintingOutrageous89

▲ 1 r/toxicmasculinity+1 crossposts

Is this toxic of my boyfriend? 19M 18F

TL;DR Is my bf toxic for not wanting me to wear leggings to the gym?

My boyfriend 19 M doesn’t want me, 18 F to wear leggings to the gym he says without him people will be looking at my butt but I tell him that’s probably rare to happen and that’s others I can’t control that but he says if I do I just want attention from others. Last time a guy was looking at my butt supposedly him and he got quiet with me when confronted he said because he was looking at my butt. And he says that’s his rule and if I don’t like it I can end it with him so it seems there’s no room for discussion. I don’t know what to doo how do I change a stubborn persons mind I love him but I want him to not be so machista a times. And to top it all off we called his cousin and his gf was agreeing that she would never wear leggings without her man because that’s disrespectful.

reddit.com
u/PaintingOutrageous89 — 13 days ago