u/PaintingWarm9436

I know there are different ways to be smart and different types of intelligence, but this is for women who get complimented on how smart they are or get told things like "you're smarter than me/you're the smart one". In your experience do people treat you better or worse once they realize or "decide" you're smart?

Basically the title. I read the book last year after someone recommended it on this sub.

It improved my life so much and I'm getting a bit better practicing acceptance but sometimes I just wish I could make them understand/self reflect more. I know the thought of giving them the book seems absurd but I have a friend who had one of her parents read it and the parent did admit they recognized themselves in some parts. Thank you in advance!