Are there any windfall schools on Xbox? I joined one but I don’t think I like how slow the attacks are. Just started playing I’m level 30 and my Dexterity is my highest stat. Any tips, tricks, setting changes, or school suggestions would be helpful also Dm if you need a co op partner
I’m a 20yr old male who has lived many lives in one. For context I come from an abusive household which led me to be in foster care 3 separate times, the third being the last time, and I have been with the same family coming up 11 years. About 2 years ago my biological father reached out to me, and I was excited and hesitant to reconnect with him. After a few months of good conversations, we decided that it was time to meet in person.
At first all seemed well, until the day we had to meet up. I was so excited that I took off work, and set my whole day aside just to see him. Hours went by of no update from him, until 1hr before we supposed to meet and he cancelled on me because of work. I told him I understood and that I was disappointed, he told to not be upset and he assured me that it wouldn’t happen again.
Fast forward a week and there I am again all excited but with doubts floating about in my mind this time . This time we planned for the weekend, and we both agreed to clear our schedules to make sure we wouldn’t have a repeat of the last time. Well, 1hr before my dad sends me a text that says he’s having car issues and hasn’t been able to drive for a few months. He sent me a picture of his “damaged car”, but he forgot to crop out the Reddit search of damaged cars.
I called him out for lying to me, he got really defensive and said that I was being difficult. I asked him how could he get to work if his car doesn’t work, and he said that he uses his tow truck. This is now two lies back to back if anyone is keeping track. Anyways, he said that he would use that come see me, so crisis averted right? Wrong, about 30min go by and he texts me that he won’t be able to make it because he was helping his friend by picking him up because his friend had gotten a flat tire. I was crushed by this, not because he was lying to me but because I wanted to believe that he actually would change his ways and make an effort to see me.
He did this 4 more times. I eventually told him that I would no longer be the scheduling everything because I am his son and he is the adult. I also told him I would no longer be clearing my schedule until he was 1000% sure he was free because I was tired of being disappointed. He called me and told me that the ball is in my court, and that since I’m a grown man I shouldn’t be upset. I told him I didn’t appreciate him discrediting my feelings, I only asked for him to put work aside for one day. I told him that if it happened again he would only be able to talk to me because I was going to start my first year in college and I wouldn’t be able to see him.
The 7th time comes around and I am pissed and I told him that if he can’t prioritize his one and only son over work, then he’s not worth my time or energy. He got upset and called me a bitch otp, and told me to stop being soft. I told him to not call me out of my name, and that he should be ashamed that he was going to lose me yet again because of his actions. Am I the asshole for holding my “dad” accountable for not being a good dad?