u/Paralax-

My current partner still has media of her ex, photos at least. For me, I find this disrespectful being in a new relationship with such things. Me personally I deleted everything of my last relationship in respect of the new girl as soon as we became serious. I understand that it’s an “important chapter in people’s lives” however you have the memories, I see no need to have evidence of it. I feel keeping media is not fully letting go to give your best to the next person.

She stated she deleted most media but kept the media of the “times she misses”. I want honest opinions on whether or not this is disrespectful or not and how so. I’ve asked her would she be okay if she knew I had such media, to which she answered no. However she wouldn’t explain why she would keep it. Is it “different” for girls than guys? Is she a hypocrite? Is this disrespectful?