How do people get over getting cheated on?
I have never experienced getting cheated on, but things that were close to that, which ended up screwing me over and it always took so much to regain myself back. For me, getting cheated on feels like having your worth abolished.
The thing that I don't understand is how people can still open themselves to others after experiencing that, still having the energy to explore new people and give love another chance.
Personally, I'd think that if someone was able to cheat on me, others can absolutely do it to me. I don't blame one man and think another man would treat me better. And especially to the other woman, I would think my new man would leave me for her too, like the one before. I would think she has more value than me, the way she was chosen over me. That it's not any man's fault, but her for being better than me in some ways, making all men going to choose her when given the option.
Genuinely, how do people cope with that?