sooo... how am i supposed to act in the pit
for context, i'm a 5'2 girl who goes solo to shows, and i just want to know if im being annoying or not 😓
i saw 2hollis live during the star tour and LOVED being in the push pit, but then all i see online is people saying that the crowd is horrible and rude and doesn't know how to act... and then i also recently went to a local hyper pop show and joined in a moshpit with the only circle of guys who actually looked like they were getting turnt enough... and then they left and i hear all the girls around me complaining about them, so i'm starting to wonder about if im the problem lol
i mean... it feels like such a waste to just sway to the music at these shows, but when i bump into people while jumping around some people seem annoyed with me... but ngl im annoyed with them because why arent they dancing lmao
and omg these boyfriends give me the death glare for doing anything more than a gentle side to side next to their gf 😭😭 nonmoshers at these shows always make me feel so unwelcome and i struggle to understand because if it ever gets too much for me, i move out of the center, but idk maybe im missing some self awareness and am actually a horrible person to be next to at a concert
seeing 2 at the gov ball so would like to become not annoying if possible