u/Past_Fennel4575

Getting used to the adjustment- going to take some time

I am 36M. Just split with my long term partner of 12 years- it was clear we were not compatible for the future and for marriage and kids so had to do the brutal thing for the sake of both of our happiness for the future.

All feels very strange but I know we did the right thing. I’m anticipating many months of a rollercoaster of emotions and trying to keep myself as busy as possible whilst also allowing some time to think and sit in the emotions and feelings of loss.

I know it’ll get easier but the adjustments over the next few months feel all rather overwhelming right now.

Any advice welcome!

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u/Past_Fennel4575 — 7 days ago