u/Past_Lavishness4616

He moved out. We’re still in the process of getting divorced. Kids are with me for now (they are teens). The ring account is in my name, but he pays for the monthly service. I took him off the ring when he moved out so he can no longer see the camera. He’s angry about it. Everything I read tho is that I have a right to privacy even tho the house is in both our names. If he wants to contact his lawyer about it he can, but I’m not going to pay my lawyer to verify it’s ok. If he goes to his and they say I have to add him back I will. I mean it’s not like I can see his coming and going from His new place. I’m holding firm on this. He expected me to just cave to what he wanted and in the past I would have said ok. I’m learning my worth tho and I think that makes him
Angry.

I think I just need a place to put this while I look for a therapist. This year has been a lot. In the middle of some
Of the hardest things my husband handed me divorce papers. It’s fine. Probably Rhena. Long time coming. I guess I hoped we could suck it up until the kids were out of the house. Why? I don’t know. Anyway we’re in the mist of it all. Heading to mediation. He planned a trip back in June I assume as a celebration because if I had done what he wanted and said yes to everything it would have been all wrapped up right before his planned trip. In my head I call it his I’m divorced trip. To my kids I say I guess he wanted to go visit some people. He’ll be gone until just before one of the kids birthdays. They are teens so older but still not ah doing it the best and of course I’m
The one that takes the brunt of it all. I am the shoulder they cry on. I’m the one they get angry at even when I know the anger isn’t directed at me. And he gets to waltz off on a vacation while I try to hold them up through the muck. It hurts. When do I get to go on a Vacation? Anytime I even leave the house 99% of the time I get a call or text from him saying so and so did blah blah blah. Ug. I hate this. I wish I could jump
Ahead to the good part. I’m praying at the end there is a good part because right now it feels like a train wreck and he caused and somehow was the only one to walk away unscathed