Partner with sleep issues
My new partner has sleep issues. He tells me he has tried sleep therapy and medication.
He has worked out a strict routine that helps him. But we barely sleep in the same bed together and he never sleeps at mine. I have adhd and am a very restless sleeper. Every time I move he gets really frustrated. He sighs loudly if I move and grumbles under his breath. Sometimes he gets really angry. Once he has gotten up and slammed the door on the way out to the bathroom. He also tells me very angrily and bluntly when I move. Stuff like “can you not do that.. stop moving your foot.” And it feels really harsh and angry. If I go to touch him he says “no” super bluntly. It really hurts. I want to be supportive but it’s making me really anxious. Whenever we sleep together I feel nervous and so on edge about not moving. Which makes me want to move more. I usually end up sleeping on his couch. Does anyone have any experience with? His tone and anger scares me. It’s like he turns into a different person at night.