u/PermitOdd627

Prostitution is a serious problem that is going on in Pakistan, well everywhere but im talking about pakistan here. I have done my research, talked with guards and police patrols, talked with 2 very good friends who have done it and have also done online research.

The argument for prostitution is that men need sex and sex through a dignified way is very hard and cumbersome to get. While with a prostitute u just have to pay her moreover even if u have a wife or a girlfriend u still have to spend money on her to keep her interested, which sounds somewhat similar to prostitution. Plus with prostitutes u get what u want and youre out of their no strings attached and no commitments, sounds good for guys who are afraid of commitment.

But the arguments against it are stronger which i discussed in my previous post they included, risk of stds, legal risks, getting harrassed or robbed, getting addicted and feelimg bad about urself. A lot of ppl took it as a joke, but for the guys who donot know this, this is a serious problem a lot of people make money doing this especially in punjab, heera mandi was not a joke it genuinely existed. A lot of girls doing this are trafficked and there are a lot of underaged girls doing it aswell. You will be shocked to hear that there are actual parents both mothers and fathers who send their daughters to pimps to do this.

Next, a lot of married men are involved in it who have wives waiting in their homes or even wives who know about it but are too scared to say anything. Every socioeconomic class is involved in this, lower class, middle class, upper class and elite class with the prices ranging from 2000-a few crores. Yes, crores.one of my friend who is older than me told me that back in the day a showbiz star female, wont mention her name used to supply girls for 1-2 crores each, back in the early or mid 2000s.

And regarding my post, why i made it? A lot of young guys or even older ones do it out of curiousity to see what its like and with no one to talk to they end up doing the forbidden and later either regret it or get addicted to it. The point is that it all starts out curiousity they just want to know what it's like. Plus a lot of people who visit them have terribles lives or mindsets should i say, they stress a lot and visiting a prostitute for sex seems like the only fun and pleasurable thing to do, it creates a contrast between their dull life and a life of thrill. And this is also where the addiction part comes in.

I know this might sound weird, but the topic of crimes really interest me, i have researched a lot on the qabza mafia, drug trafficking, prostitution, kidnappings, robberies and other crimes. Drugs are the next topic that i would like to talk about but similar to prostitution a lot of people do it and will get offended by me opposing it. So i will have to deal with the hate.

Lastly, for anyone thinking about doing. Dont, pray to Allah and ask for help, trust me Allah will save you however u will have to reach out to him by kneeling down on ur knees.

If any of u guys are thinking of paying and doing the deed dont do it trust me, the chase feels 10 times better than the catch, when you will finally be in the bed u will realize that it isnt as good as u imagined. Im not saying it will be bad, it can actually be if u donot find the girl attractive. Even if u do find the girl attractive it will still feel like ur masturbating the difference would only be little. Only sex when u r emotionally connected with that person will feel 10 times better than porn even if you donot find them that attractive trust me.

And im not even talking about halal and haram yet, you might feel the guilt u might not. But one thing is for sure, u will be disappointed to some extent atleast. Plus the legal side of things and the risk of getting hiv aids and herpes is at an all time high now stds are growing rapidly in pakistan, an hour of pleasure lets say is not worth it for having an incurable disease. Imagine urself with an std saying i wish i would not have done it. And even for a girlfriend try to find one that isnt ran through. Lastly 95% are scams they will either not even let u have sex, or u might have sex but u will get the police called on u after or get blackmailed with hotel footage. The police makes a lot of money doing this.

So please donot visit an escort, the risk to reward is not worth it at all. Unless u r very dumb and delusional and can convince urself that the prostitute is in love with you.

Edit: i did not visit anyone, i have 2 very close friends who did though. And they paid a very high amount in lacs.

I am broken. I have a stuttering problem, i hate the way my body looks, i am failing, and i cant make friends. Im 20 years old and i have always thought that i am a very strong person i have always avoided pain and not thought about it, but ig subconsciously i have always been aware. I stopped brushing my teeth, stopped doing my hair and stopped dressing well a while ago. I fell like it doesnt matter, also i have always thought that i would not live past 24, 25 and i still have a feeling that it is true. And that makes me kind of happy that soon life will be over. On top of that i am also privelleged both my parents work and i do nothing just go to the university and to the gym. I have been going to the gym for like 4 years now and still hate my body, all that hard work seems wasted i rejected so many socializing oppurtunities for the gym and still dont have a decent physique. The only thing keeping me alive was the gym ig, i would always say ek baar body bnjaye phir sb sahi hojayga. Mehnat bhi krli pr body nhi bni and because of that now i hat doing hard work i think k kui faida nhi bai bcz of that i also dont study for uni and that is having an impact. Im in 2nd year and have to repeat 2 courses just got caught cheating today and might fail another course so might have to repeat 3 courses. I had good grades in A and O levels As and Bs. I feel bad bro, idk what to do. I also cant make friends in uni its pretty lonely there.

I want to mention a spiritual part u guys might know more about it than me. I went on a trip last year and lost my phone 2 times there but got it back. I also went to a trip recently and lost my phone there but got it back things like this happen but this time one person asked me to do sadaqah he said ghar ja k apna sadqah utarna. After a week i saw scratches on my parents car i asked someone about it and somehow they also brought up k apna sadqah utaro. Two people have asked me to give sadqah in 2 weeks i also havr 15000 laying around. Also i have a family member who is involved in magic and stuff and i sometimes talk to him. Idk, maybe im overthinking. But overall, i need help. I just heard about someone commit suicide recently nearby and i was like how come can someone so that. But today i wanted someone to kill me so my life could end. Now i understand why that person commited suicide. I feel lost, my stutter has also not gone away it has been hurting me since i was 7 years old.

I have seen some people who hate god. Ofcourse they become athiest or agnostics because of that, but why do they get that way like they tear up the Holy books and even abuse God.