u/PersonalMoment

Not sure if this is the right subreddit for this, but I wanted opinions on wedding gift etiquette.

Context:

- I know both the bride and groom

- I’m decently close with the groom since we went to high school together

- The wedding is after work at a Chinese dim sum restaurant, so it feels a bit more casual than a traditional banquet

Questions:

1. How much would you typically give in this situation?

2. If I’m bringing my SO as my +1, am I generally expected to cover the gift amount for both of us since I invited him?

3. Or do couples usually split/contribute separately for wedding gifts?

Curious what the norm is here.

Edit: in NYC