u/Phoebe_Isla

Are my feelings valid? My future husband has an ex-partner and they have a 9-year-old child together. Of course, I understand that he needs to support his child, but what if it feels like he’s still responsible not only for his child, but also for his ex and her other children that is not even his own? His ex’s daughter, who isn’t his biological child, is even living with him. Are my feelings of jealousy valid, or am I just being selfish? What should I do or say to him without coming across as a bad person?

PS. Stepdaughter is likely on her 20s. His biological child is living with the mother and the step daughter is with him.