u/PianistMountain3928

28F here — do not want kids, will never want kids. Recently had a random wave of desire for kids that passed completely and am now 100% sure a child would ruin my life. Want my family to get off my back about marriage/kids, thus looking for a more “secretive” DINK relationship (at least just for a couple of years). Goal is retirement by 40 years old. HMU if your goal is also full financial independence or if you know where I can find a DINK relationship.

I have worked in my field for a long time already, thus the reason I do not want kids. Will not tolerate physical abuse or being controlled in my own home. Long-term oriented individual preferred, preferably another “youngest sibling”