Hello all. I have a 2016 Jetta TSI & cannot figure out how to get my mph displayed. For some reason whenever I set it to mph it has 3 dashed lines but doesn’t show the mph whenever I start driving. Prob a simple fix but I’m a noob & haven’t been able to figure it out. Thanks in advance!
Hello all. So, recently (6/4) a girl that I went to middle school w hmu on dm on my IG. We hadn’t talked at all since middle school (21-22 yrs). However, I’ve always thought she was cute & on more than once occasion found myself scrolling through her IG. I should preface by saying, a wk prior to her sliding into my dm’s she got out of a tumultuous 3 yr relationship that left her w an almost 2 yr old son & the father out of the picture. So, we talk back & forth on IG for a bit & end the night w me getting her number. Shortly after, maybe 3-4 days, we are hanging out on our first date. We met up at Starbucks then grabbed lunch & went to an arcade. Everything went flawlessly. We both enjoyed the date & upon getting back to Starbucks we shared our first kiss. Following that first date we begin txting/ talking on the phone throughout everyday. When I would go to work I would have several txt messages waiting for me when I would go on break. We hangout again for the second time - we hit up the movies & walk around a strip mall before grabbing dinner. We end the night by making out for about 30 min. I’m on cloud 9. We continue face timing on a nightly basis for hrs at a time. We send pics to each other. We talk about the future. Our third date takes place shortly after. We meet up at the mall, walk around for a bit, then go to Dave & Busters to eat & play the arcades. It is all going so well. We get more intimate, talk even more about a future together, FaceTime every night. This brings us to 2 wks ago, Wednesday. She randomly txts me asking to get lunch w her son & mom. This is a big deal - I’m meeting both of them for the first time. I rush to get rdy & get flowers for her mom. The date goes EXCEPTIONALLY WELL. I leave the date & she txts me shortly after saying, “my mom loves you. She just asked when is the wedding?”. Needless to say, I’m over the moon. Two days later, Friday, she txts me later in the day asking if I wanted to come to her house to hangout & meet her dad. Just like the two days prior, I go & meet her dad & hangout. & it went incredibly well. We end up watching a movie w her parents before they went to bed & we watched a movie together. I ask her to be my gf & she excitedly agrees. We seal it w a pic for my IG - because of course we did. This is where things get real weird, real fast. Status quo for the next cple of days until that following Tuesday. I get back from my run & while showering she txts me a soliloquy basically saying she has a lot on her plate after her recent break up & accepting that she is going to have a broken family & her son won’t have his dad in the picture. She then says me asking her to be my gf put a lot of pressure on her & while it wasn’t negative pressure, it was pressure nonetheless. She says she still wants to hangout & keep doing what we’ve been doing but wants to keep it casual & take it slow. I call her & we talk for about 20 min & afterwards I felt okay about our conversation. I was still hopeful & optimistic about a future w her. However, starting that day things became clearly different than they were prior. Suddenly, we weren’t talking nonstop. In fact, we’re barely talking at all (sporadic txting, no FaceTiming as she is always making an excuse as to why she can’t). We don’t see each other. This is how the next 2-3 days look until finally, that Thursday night I manage to reach her on the phone & we, what I thought, hashed it all out. I explained to her that I was having trouble understanding the drastic change in our dynamic & how it doesn’t make sense to me considering we went from being both on cloud 9 to now her seemingly wanting nothing to do w me. She explains that in her last relationship most situations would lead to conflict & that she didn’t want that to happen w us which is why she had become so distant after the txt from Tuesday. We end the conversation on good terms & even made plans to hangout the next day & grab lunch. Next day arrives & we go to lunch - her, her son, & me. &, it’s back to being great again. It was a short visit cause she had to get home so her son could nap. We end the date w a long hug & kiss. However, the following 2 days it’s back to basically no communication, again. We txted briefly on Saturday & not at all on Sunday. When I ask her about on Sunday night she tells me that she just isn’t emotionally available & can’t give me what I’m looking for. Which, while it sucks, I could accept if not for her introducing me to her mom, dad, & son not 10 days prior. She seemed to be emotionally available then. Idk. As of now, we haven’t talked at all in 2 days & idk what to make of our situation or if we’ll ever talk again. Which would suck. I guess my question is, should I continue to not reach out to her? & if so, for how long? It seems we’re both on different pages. It just baffles me how she went from being absolutely enamored w me & wanting all the same things I wanted to completely opposed to me & seemingly not wanting anything to do w me. Has this ever happened to anyone else & if so, how did you deal w it? Anyway, I know this was a lot to read so thank you to anyone who did. &, thank you in advance for any advice/ suggestions.