u/Pippichippi

Newly married.. Endless issues with passive aggressive in laws and left feeling unseen and undervalued. Have been told I must speak up the next time an issue comes up. Discussed going on holiday within the country a few times with hubby and was told we need to watch our finances and should wait a bit. Recently found out in laws are going on a cruise out of the country in a few months and he has said that will be contributing to funding this trip. Feeling hurt. Am I justified? Thoughts, opinions, advice appreciated..