u/PiscesLesbian

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What are signs to tell if a friend is into your partner? In a wlw relationship.

Ive had some suspicions lately, and I’ve been trying to look online for this and it’s all straight women saying if they text each other or follow on social media it’s a sign, but that just doesn’t fit a queer situation. Like if we are all friends in the same group of course they’re gonna text each other and have a personal relationship outside of me.

I want to add some nuance as well that I’m not worried about my partner cheating on me, I just want to be friends with this girl, but first I wanna know whether or not she’s playing games (I’m autistic and don’t pick up on a lot of cues)

If this has happened to you I would appreciate hearing some early warning signs and what they escalated to, and perhaps how you dealt with it (calling it out vs just letting it happen)? Thanks

Edit: I may not have explained it well enough in the original post, but I need help learning red flags, social cues, and signs that a friend wants to be with my partner and is resenting me for it and acting out in sneaky ways.

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u/PiscesLesbian — 4 days ago