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Dear Diary 🏳️‍⚧️ (by @ourgrandfatherstory)

source: https://www.instagram.com/p/DaNMbcDiSvW/?igsh=MWo3ZTNoank5ZDQyZA==

"I'm sharing this to push for real, structural change so future transgender students don't have to fight the same battles I did.

As a first step, I think we need a pragmatic approach: schools should listen to healthcare professionals and make reasonable concessions - like allowing us to grow our hair, use gender-appropriate uniforms, and access inclusive facilities. It's an easy, respectful compromise that balances school policy with our dignity and need to be ourselves." - Elsie

u/maanleo — 2 days ago
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A friend of mine and I made queer flag coded Coat of Arms based on mythological creatures because it is FUN and they look frickin cool in my opinion :D

Hello, everyone.

Half a year ago, my best buddy and I had an idea during one of our late-night Discord chats. We are both big nerds for fantasy and mythological stuff and wondered how fun it would be to have banners or coat of arms for different orientations and identities. What could they look like, and which mythical creature could fit well or just be fun to see like that? Thus, this little collection was born!

We got:

-Hydra of Omni

-Unicorn of Pride

- The Phoenix of Trans

- The Siren of Lesbian

- The Winged Lion of Gay

- The Griffon of Aro

- The Dragon of Ace

- The Harpy of Sapphic

- The Minotaur of Achillean

- The Oroboros of Intersex [really proud of that one]

- The Hippocampus of Genderfluid

- The Sphinx of AroAce

- The Peryton of Non-binary

- The Winged Wolf of Bisexual

- And Pan for...well Pansexual

WE ARE CURRENTLY RUNNING A KICKSTARTER TO TURN THESE INTO PATCHES AND PINS

If you want one of these designs and support our project, come check out our current campaign.

We are live till the end of July:

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/shattersaurus/coat-of-pride

u/Shattersaurus — 1 day ago
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Graham and Amy marching at Pride Portland

You wouldn’t see Collins or Mills marching, let alone wearing Pride shirts or waving flags in solidarity. However you feel about him, he shows up where it counts.

Nikon Z5II + Tamron 70-300mm f-4.5-6.3 Di III RXD

EDIT: Got a little overzealous with the dig at Mills, my bad.

u/J0nn1e_Walk3r — 3 days ago
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Pride months feels exhausting now.

Pride Month has started to feel a bit exhausting. I understand why it exists and recognize the discrimination that LGBTQ people have faced, I don't think anyone should be discriminated because of who they are.

That said, after an entire month of constant celebrations, campaigns, advertisements, and rainbow branding from companies, I sometimes find it exhausting. It feels like it's everywhere on television, online, in stores, and across social media. By the end of the month, I'm simply tired of seeing it.

I'm not saying LGBTQ people shouldn't have the right to be proud. It's more about the almost performative feeling of the celebration. When every major company, organization, and platform and even reedit subs seems to focus it can begin to feel repetitive, commercialized, and more like marketing than genuine support.

Again no hate to the LGBTQ community I'm just tired of it becoming a PR and marketing tool.

What you think?

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u/Empty_Swimmer5851 — 1 day ago
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I’m going to my 1st pride parade next weekend but I’m scared

I came out years ago, almost a decade. But I still get scared of being “exposed” as I did suffered a lot of extreme homophobia some years ago (eg, more than once, a guy put a knife in my throat for not wanting to be with them + another woman - obs: I’m a bisexual woman). Any advice?

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u/Cool-Geologist2892 — 2 days ago
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What is my sexuality? I need help figuring it out. [F 22]

I'm 80 percent attracted to women and 20 percent attracted to men but would date all genders. What is this called?

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u/FluidTemperature1762 — 3 days ago
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I don't know who I am anymore

Hello, everyone!

So, I'm 25yo. I was born a male. For my whole life I knew I wasn't that, I played pretend being a princess when I was a kid, I loved all girly stuff, like makeup and nail polish.

When I was 18, I transitioned as a girl. I didn't feel the need of surgery or hormones, cause I already felt very fine with my body and myself. I just knew I was female. I cried many times when I used to look at other girls and I thought I couldn't be like them.

But through time, I have had many different versions of expressing my femininity. At first I was goth, then I was office-stylish, and through time I ended up being just a girl who put makeup on and dressed the way I felt like. Usually, I would always wear a skirt or a dress cause it was what made me feel comfortable.

But I kept loving the side of myself that wasn't woman. If you knew me, you'd know that I am probably the most feminine girl alive lmao. I used to follow some etiquette lessons online because I wanted to move like a princess, and I did it. Everyone used to call me Aurora because I had long blonde hair and moved like her.

Now, almost a decade later, I decided to cut my hair. I knew it wouldn't have made me less of a woman, I was just so tired of feeling like I had to be feminine all the time. Always put on an outfit that would match my makeup and hair... I just wanted to be myself. But I've been pretending for so long that now I don't know who myself is.

I stayed home for a week, with my hair cut short, and my beard and mustache started to grow and I looked at myself in the mirror and I didn't despise it. So I took some pictures and I didn't hate them either. I LOVED how I didn't have to try hundreds of times to look more girly.

But there's also the transphobia factor. I can't find a job because I'm a transgender woman. And because of that I can't even find love. So if these are the reasons why I'm feeling this way, it's not worth it. I could never give up on my identity for anything.

But then again, what if I really feel good either way? What would it say about me? After building a whole life based on being the woman I am today, fighting against everyone who told me I was not... Now what?

Please, if someone has ever been through that, what did you do? How did you know? What's happening to me?

u/florenciafazzarino0 — 3 days ago
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Am I bisexual or pansexual?

What is my sexuality? I need help figuring it out. \[F 22\] I'm 80 percent attracted to women and 20 percent attracted to men I'm mostly attracted to women and feminity in men and women. but would date all genders. What is this called? Very rarely trans and non binary people

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u/FluidTemperature1762 — 3 days ago
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Am I bisexual or pansexual?

What is my sexuality? I need help figuring it out. [F 22]

I'm 80 percent attracted to women and 20 percent attracted to men but would date all genders. What is this called? Very rarely trans and non binary people.

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u/FluidTemperature1762 — 3 days ago
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And with that, pride month comes to an end.

I'm posting this on other fandoms too. That's why it has more than this fandom

u/VoidcornMSM2014 — 5 days ago
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Pretty (I think) Rainbow Nails

Nails I got done recently. 🌈

u/Pats-and-Eds — 6 days ago
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Parent of mine called me "woke" and obsessed when I was explaining the meaning of Pink Pony Club

Long story short my dad likes the song and asked me what it meant so I explained the meaning and how it was about the girl dancing at a gay bar called the Pink Pony Club but my mom called me "woke" and "obsessed with this lgbtq stuff" when all I did was explain it.

Like tf???

u/Easy-Requirement2532 — 4 days ago
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why are non-toxic queer communities so hard to find online?

I was just in a discord server that banned me for three days after I called out a mod for repeatedly telling a 13-year-old child that nobody cared about their trauma.

As much as I can understand not wanting people to vent in a public channel, telling them that “nobody gives a fuck” and saying “womp womp” is not appropriate behavior, especially not for a mod :/

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u/Homunculuster — 4 days ago
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Being gay and queer is so awesome

This is random and idk if this is the right place to say this, but WHY have problems with the LGBTQ community? Like, it's such a happy, loving, beautiful, accepting community (of course there are exceptions but that goes with any community) but I feel like living in a society where we as humans are free to love whoever without a social stigma, or identify and call ourselves whatever we want, is that not cool? Like wouldn't it be cool if in our society it wasn't a THING to come out, we just LOVED whoever we wanted? And wouldn't it be cool if we just expressed ours and identified freely without the restraints of gender norms?

That's what he queer community DOES that's what we're fighting for! Is that not beautiful? Does that not sound awesome sauce? Humans are such beautiful, wonderful, cool, creatures, what the queer community is fighting for is just more freedom and happiness for all. Freedom for humans just to be humans. I would argue it is more natural for us to be like THAT than just: Man fuck woman, only boy and girl, and boy do this, girl do that.

The queer community is beautiful. That's all.

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u/OlivePieieoe — 4 days ago
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Cheap fursona or wlw/mlm commisions from a queer artist!!

Hey guys!! I’m Caramel and I’m saving up to one day leave my homophobe household. I’m opening commisions for my pakistani queer community to make digital and traditional art of either their fursonas or portraits of them and their partners!! If anyone seems interested I will of course be sharing my portfolio!!

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u/artopia_77 — 4 days ago