I can’t stand my roommates “situation ship”
My (f24) roommate (f23 we’ll call her Becky) and I have been best friends since high school and we don’t fight, except for the past couple month (after we’d been living together for a bit) we’re always fighting about this guy(m27) she has around. My boyfriend(m24) is on our lease and picked out our place with us, was always apart of our lease from the start, we’ve thrown out that Becky’s guy could be on our lease cause he’s stayed with us for a few months straight and he’s not paying rent elsewhere. But he
keeps saying he’s moving into his own place. It sits wrong with the me that he’s older than all of us and living rent free. He has a bad drinking problem and regularly shows up drunk, even when Becky says not to. Now he’s pissed on the floor, carpet let me specify, carpet that was brand new when we moved into our unit and now the apartment reeks. I don’t even think Becky’s happy with her current situation, but I don’t know how much longer I can take it. There’s so many little things he does that add up to boil my blood— leaving the back door open with A/C on, not shutting our refrigerator, using MY laundry detergent when Becky has her own, and even drink my boyfriends alcohol and not replacing it. When confronted on these things he’s dismissive like “it’s not a big deal” Someone please convince me we are NOT being used as a crash pad. This guy is our friend, and part of our larger friend group.