I know I cant commit sucide, I Know thats the easy way out. Everything seems out of reach, everytime i think i got this, something happens something triggers me something minute goes wrong and suddenly im back in a spiral. I want to change I really want to but i dont know why i can not. I know what to do , I can not do it. IDK IDK I really dont know whats wrong.
Hello everybody,
I submitted my first research paper to TMLR after it got desk rejected at NeurIPS because of a page limit issue. Ever since submitting it I've been dreading the reviews. Not because I don't expect criticism (that's literally the reviewers' job), but because I'm worried they'll reject it or find some fatal flaw that we somehow missed.
I even ended up stalking the OpenReview pages of papers that were handled by my assigned Action Editor just to see how they evaluate papers and what kinds of situations they accept or reject. I've also read enough horror stories about reviews that were completely unpredictable or papers that people thought deserved better, which definitely hasn't helped.
I was just wondering what your first submission experience was like. Does this feeling ever go away, or do you just get used to it after a few papers?
For context, my paper can probably be viewed pretty shrewdly as an extension of framework X to setting Y, where X has never really been developed before. It's a pretty theory-heavy paper, and after looking through OpenReview discussions of papers in this area, the reviewer spread seems insanely unpredictable. There are papers that looked mathematically solid to me that still got rejected, while others had completely different reviewer opinions. It feels like there's so much variance.
My coauthors and I have spent a lot of time on this work, so I really, really don't want it to get rejected. I'd honestly do anything to address reviewer concerns if they point out issues or ask for clarification.
Do you guys have any ways of anticipating what reviewers are likely to criticize before the reviews come back? Or is it basically impossible to predict and I'm just overthinking everything while waiting?