Tips for what to do
Hiii, so I've been partying a lot and I am a bit antisocial when I do it. Many of you may have seen me from time to time. When I go out with my friends, they usually do the socialising part. However, I just go through. I dance till the end of it all. And then find my friends again with some new friends that they made. Recently I've been trying to socialise by talking to strangers, sharing things etc.
My problem is with girls I kind of like, and I know they like me too. While dancing it's kinda obvious, entering my space, gaze etc etc, guys too. I look very confusing. So I can understand.
I come from a place, where all my ex's, and the woman in my life have gone through very severe traumas regarding men. I hate it, and I carry it with me. They have gone through horrible things, and this is why I do not approach girls or disturb them when they party, for my want of intimacy. And now, because of this I have purposely avoided many interesting and really cute girls by not approaching them. I like to give them a safe space to dance around me. But sometimes I do kinda want to approach but my heart stops me from doing this remembering where I come from.
I want to learn how to change this. Slowly.
Ahhhh, I always regret later that I didn't approach a girl that's obviously into me 😭. Like so beautiful and interesting. 😭😭😭
Also why is it that no one uses their words. Like just say something please lol. Is it cause I don't look like I want to talk, I have a very blank face and non expressive face (I think).
So yeah strange problem, but please help.
Also should get this antisocial dancing t-shirt haha.
My experience comes from everywhere, rso/tresor/else/Utg Parties, etc.
23m.