u/PlaneCauliflower3193

we’re a lesbian couple (29 & 30). wanting to grow our little family. we’ve been in conversations in choosing our clinics and of course, donor options.

we’d actually prefer for our donor to be queer too (hard to find in banks/clinics), and preferably someone we know and trust. we’ve exhausted asking mutuals that we know. but we also really fear how unregulated the fertility business & sperm banks can get. never realised how all consuming this process can get.