i believe my bf may have a porn addiction
my bf 27M and myself 25 F moved in together (been together 2 years) and the two nights coincidentally we did not have sex, i woke up to what i believe was him masturbating. the second i began to sit up he flips onto his side as if he is hiding something. i confronted him both times and he acted like i was crazy. i don’t like the idea of someone doing that without my consent while i am sleeping. shortly after i confronted him he ended up going to the bathroom where i assume he finished. he is strongly denying anything but i have found porn on his phone MULTIPLE times in the past and have communicated i would not like porn in our household.
the other night we had sex for 20-30 minutes and he could not finish. he excuses himself to the bathroom (would not let me come in to pee) and stays in there for a significant amount of time. i am leading to believe he has a porn/masturbation addiction and i want to bring this up. how do i bring this up? can i ask to go through his phone?
please help me navigate this