Am i wrong to tell my dad he’s no longer welcome at my wedding if he doesn’t attend the entire wedding?
Back story my step mom treated me like a red headed step child growing up. My dad sat by not doing a thing about it. So when i turned 18 i packed my things and never looked back. So In my early 20’s she tried texting me and i told her to lose my number, called her a narcissist and called her out on everything she’s done. which she denies and my dad is denying. I just let it go and went no contact with her and my dad will text me on holidays and ask me to lunch 2X a year. Now I’m getting married in a week and my dad just told me that he’s only attending my ceremony and not my reception bc everything i caused with his wife (calling her out) and she’s only comfortable going to the ceremony and leaving. Am i wrong if i tell him don’t even bother showing up just stay home with his wife. I don’t want them showing up just to get pictures to post on social media putting on an act. It also feels like he’s never been on my side & now even on the biggest day of my life he’s still not supporting me fully. I at least thought everyone could act like adults for a wedding. Especially when I’m his first child (F). Also to add my stepmom has always hated my mom even though she has no reason to. Which is probably the real reason she doesn’t want to attend reception. My dad’s exact words were “it’ll be awkward”.