I'm just wondering how to deal with this stuff...
I'm a 14 year old who is almost fifteen. After a large series of events that had happened to me that I would rather not discuss, I have found myself feeling transgender. I have done research and it's something that apparently is common for teenagers who go through traumatic experiences. I have felt like a girl for a long while and I remember the first time I felt like a woman was when I was in kindergarten, it sounds dumb but ever since than it has became more prominent and I blame my decision of ignoring it for the reasons I have been feeling depressed and anxious all the time but I also know that that alone is not the only reason however it is still a big reason. What I'm trying to say is that I'm struggling to tell my mother and father and my therapist that I'm trans, my mom is severely transphobic and not in the way that she's an asshole, that's not a phobia, I mean she actually is scared of trans people and doesn't know how to react to it so whenever I had tried to tell her the first time I was transgender she got very angry and over anxious. There's a lot of conflict that me and my mom have and I feel like she just has given up on me, my dad never talks to me about it and has becoming distant and I do still feel trans. I need some help with telling my parents that I'm trans and that im actually serious in a way that won't end horribly. I thank every one of you peoples and person and what have you for any advice and any advice will help. Have a good day!