u/Plenty-Ad4657

11 weeks pregnant and constantly paranoid that I will not be a good mom or what if I don’t like my baby like some of the posts on Reddit, what if I just am not cut out to be a mom?

What if I cannot be loving or what if I end up sleeping through a feeding alarm or something?
Endless thoughts. Taught kindergarten for years and worked at daycare before that but that was different. My own mother was narcissistic and abusive and I was temporarily in an orphanage (grew up overseas). What if I become like that?

Anyone else have thoughts like this? Is it just me?

Please no rude comments I’m genuinely constantly paranoid and need some food for thought on whether if this is just me or if it is normal.. thank you so much.