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My ob appointment didn’t go as I expected

I had a miscarriage in July. I changed ob after that. My new ob told me today that I’m too old. That I shouldn’t even try to get pregnant. I’m so sad. I live close to the border so I’m thinking of crossing over to get answers. Here all they care about is if insurance is paying. I didn’t even tell her that I saw faint positive urine test today. I’m not ok.

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u/Miserable_Anything52 — 9 days ago

Early miscarriage

Found out last week after a few months trying that I was pregnant around 4.5 weeks, 2x positive tests, super strong sense of smell, fatigue ect. I was maybe overly excited and bought baby trainers, me and my husband started planning and talking about how it would be and it was genuinely lovely few days. Then I got bad cramps, lower back and leg pain, went to the GP today and had a negative test, doctor did bloods and a physical and diagnosed early miscarriage. I'm feeling sad but then feeling guilty for feeling sad given its so early 😞 Just looking for anyone who's been in the same boat and might have a few pick me up words, I went through ten years of cancer treatment before getting here to be able to try naturally so I am used to staying positive and staying strong normally, but this has knocked me a bit

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u/Different-Present110 — 9 days ago

38, TCC with very very low AMH

This is our 3rd cycle trying, but recently found my AMH is 0.18. I am ovulating though and have regular short cycles (23-24 days). My progesterone yesterday was 19 ng/dl on 8 dpo, that pretty much confirms I ovulated this cycle. I have a bit of pink discharge yesterday, made no sense but got me worried. I tested today and got a vvvfl, i know its just 9 dpo but keeping my fingers crossed. I just feel like im running out of time, this would be my first baby.

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u/Electrical-Studio101 — 8 days ago