u/PoloTshNsShldBlstOff

My grandma passed about six months ago, and had a sizable life insurance policy that her grandchildren (myself included) are the beneficiaries of.

Now that she has died : I figured that a payout would get given to the grandchildren - but recently I asked my dad about it, and he said 'it was going in a trust that my mom would control until he dies, which hopefully won't be for a very long time '

My dad is wealthy, always has been, and has provided a good life: but has been very untrustworthy towards money my grandparents have left me in the past, so now I'm starting to wonder if everything he is telling me is true.

I'm very poor, and drowning in debt, I don't understand how if I am a beneficiary I have to wait for him to die now? He has life insurance policies I benefit from as well with my siblings.

How can I find out more information about this without pissing anyone off? Should I hire a lawyer to explore/explain my options? I don't have any money. I know this life insurance policy is probably huge.

Please help.

I just washed a bunch of hash last night, and was supposed to pick up a freeze dryer this morning.

Well turns out the freeze dryer I was supposed to pick up is missing a bunch of parts, and can't work.

So now I have about a one week wait, and I'm wondering if I should put my freshly washed product in a freezer or in a refrigerator.

Should I seal it up inside a bag or should I leave it open into the air.

All I've done is remove it from my 25 micron drying cloth onto parchment paper.

I currently have it sitting in the freezer but I'm wondering if the refrigerator would be a better option?

I was at this show, then the rain started and my dad (who I took to his first panic show, kinda , wanted to leave) I had no choice, but hauled ass back to try to catch any music.

I missed all of it. Would love to hear it ... I heard SOMEONE didn't want the recording online or something.

Hell I'll bnp you discs if that's what it takes